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Patience


When I blog, I try to title my posts with a word or phrase that conveys the meaning of what I’ve written about without too much repetition in the verse (see what I did there?). It turns out there is no other word that conveys the meaning of what I want to blog about today–nothing can substitute for patience.

I have recently had some experiences that have made me a more patient person; I’ve had to be, otherwise I fear I would drive myself insane or be eaten up with worry. I KNOW that you can ALL relate to what I’m saying. After all, we want what we want and we want it now! This is true with weight loss, a new car, a vacation, and even revamping one’s finances. We want the debt GONE and our lives under CONTROL. I totally get it. 

Please, be patient with yourselves.

Making changes, even minor ones, is hard and involves a lot of work. And when you throw more than one person into the mix (and there are two people in EVERY couple), it can amplify everything. There is no reason to add to the frustration of the entire thing by beating yourself up, and this goes for your significant other. Again, I urge you to please, be patient with yourselves and your partners. Do continue forward, one, small step at a time, but most of all, cut yourselves some slack.

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