Define Your Destiny

So far, today has been filled with coincidences. I came across this quote that totally illustrates today’s blog topic, and I thought I would share it with you. “Have a vision. It is the ability to see the invisible. If you can see the invisible, you can achieve the impossible,” – Shiv Khera. Weirdly enough, while writing this I had the movie, The Secret: Dare to Dream, playing in the background. It talks about the law of attraction.

Good karma? Maybe. So, let’s generate some more!

Ever heard of a vision board? A vision board is usually a collage, digital or physical, of words and images that represent goals and dreams. You’ve probably heard me say that a goal that isn’t written down is only a wish–I’ve had experience with that. But while I am a big believer in writing down my goals, I don’t really remember ever creating a vision board.

I’m going to change that. And I suggest you do the same (by the way, we have an Adventure for that)!

Vision boards can be focused on a specific subject like: career, love, health, travel, social goals, but I would suggest making this one financial. What does debt-freedom look like for you? Find an image or phrase that represents that and put it in your vision board “folder”. Want some money in savings? Create that image, too! Looking forward to owning your own home some day? Find a picture!

If you want good stuff to happen to you, focus on them and put them out there.

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