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Obsession

No, I’m not talking about the 80s song by the synth-pop band Animotion (dating myself AGAIN). I’m talking about becoming fixated, absorbed, and fanatical about something. In this case, Kingsford, author of “Brain-powered Weight Loss,” calls it a “healthy obsession.” Basically, it means that “you no longer struggle” to be financially fit. You thrive on it!

Now, this does not mean that you won’t make any mistakes; sure, you will. But you now have the tools to get back on the path when you stray. You don’t beat yourself up. You see how far you’ve come and use that to help you shape your future. You are in control of your finances and your life from here on out.

I remember listening to The Dave Ramsey Show once where Dave told the caller that when you are at the place where you have your home paid for, the grass in the backyard feels different under your feet. Now, I owned a townhome, so, technically, I did not own the grass. BUT I CAN tell you that once I paid off that mortgage, I changed. I became content with LESS. It was very unexpected but it was SO COOL. I feel FREE. And I will NEVER go back into debt.

So, start fostering that healthy obsession. It feels good to be a fanatic, doesn’t it?

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